Taking Charge or Letting Go?
The feminine can be controlling, as it pushes for one thing, while at the same time asking for limits.
The masculine may have to wrestle to take charge as the feminine insists control is needed but would rather not have to take charge.
If the feminine is going to give over control, ‘she’ will need to know that the masculine both wants to and is able to take charge. But even more importantly, when the masculine is taking charge, the feminine will need to know that the ‘he’ will ensure ‘she’ is OK, and ‘he’ will catch ‘her’ when ‘she’ lets go and you will still love ‘her’ when ‘she’s’ vulnerable.
A tall order for the masculine but a crucible to builds endurance, strength and love. Exactly what both the masculine and feminine wants and needs.
